Choosing a Life Partner Part 1- The Secret Of Relationship-

     The Secret of Relationship

It’s not easy choosing a life partner, it somehow complicated and sometimes hard to understand.  One thing you need to understand we are the creator of the universe and that every wish of what we want to create will manifest in our lives.

Therefore it’s very important to understand what you wish

a.     What your thoughts are

b.     What your feelings are

Because it will manifest

Inside relationship it is important to understand first who’s coming into the relationship and not your partner but first to Understand yourself.

*How can you ever expect anyone else to enjoy your company?  If you don’t enjoy your own company?

*Do you treat yourself the way you want other people to treat you?

You need to become the solution of YOU.

Don’t Like:

“Now you owe me and you need to give me more”

Instead give more to yourself

·         Take time off to yourself. In senses to fill yourself up to the Fullness. To where know where you can overflow in giving others/ your spouse.

·         Most of the people get into relationship expecting their partners to show them their beauty etc

But you need to see your own beauty, when you fall in love with yourself the rest of the world will fall in love with you.

 

 

There is something so magnificent about you.

I have study myself of over 20 years now- mwaaaaa I wanaa kiss my self

I love me, Because you goanna get to love yourself.

I’m not talking about Conceit, am talking about healthy respect for you.

And as you love yourself, you will love others.

In relationships we are so used to complaining about other people such as:

i.                    My co-worker are so difficult to work with

ii.                  My husband makes me so mad

iii.                My children are so lazy

It’s always focusing on the other person. 

But for relationship to really work out

We need to focus on what we appreciate about other person, not what we are complaining about.

NOTE: When we are complaining about those things, we are only getting more of those things.

Even if you are having a really hard time in a relationship, things are not working, you are not getting along, and someone is your face.

You still can turn that relationship around.

Take a piece of paper and for the next 30 days

Once a day sit down and write all the things you appreciate about that person.

Think about all the reasons that you love them. You appreciate their sense of humor and their support and what you will find id that when you focus on appreciating and acknowledging their strengths.

That’s what you will get more of and the problems will fade away.

One thing you need to put in mind is

WE CAN NOT CONTROL OTHER PEOPLE? NO MATTER HOW HAD WE TRY

Often times, you give other’s the opportunity to create your happiness and many times they fail to create. WHY?

It’s because the only one person can be in charge of you JOY, OF YOU BLISS IS YOU

YOUR JOY LIES WITH IN YOU.

 

By Nice Kenny